In love with an older man - Yes, somehow it happened after all. What excites me so much about this man? Well, it comes down mainly to the following aspects:

- he looks incredibly good for his age
- I just feel incredibly safe and secure with this man
- every date is a dream
- I have to think about this man 24 hours a day!

I could just gush about him every day. The age difference between us is about 15 years. And that very point worries me in turn. Can a relationship like this really work? Will it all remain just a short dream? My head is full of so many thoughts. I should actually be happy. How can I get these nagging thoughts out of my head?

In love with an older man

In Love With an Older Man and Totally Blocked in Everyday Life

In love with an older man and therefore completely unable to perform at my best. As I've already hinted, I'm totally happy with this man, and at the same time I'm plagued by all these thoughts. All of this makes for a relatively unfavorable combination. I have an important and, above all, very responsible job in finance. But right now I'm definitely slipping a little there. I'm simply in love, and that is what keeps buzzing around in my head, or more precisely, this man keeps buzzing around in my head all the time. Things are going quite well in bed, too. They're actually going too well. That is again one of those points that blocks my head in everyday life. I sit over insurance contracts and in my thoughts I'm in bed with my partner. Sounds absurd, but it's still the reality. It's really very hard for me to simply shake off these thoughts.

In Love With an Older Man and Caught Between Two Worlds

In love with an older man

As a young woman of just 19, I think about my parents all the time. What would they say if I came home with such an old man? Of course he isn't really old, but compared to me he is. How others see me matters a great deal to me. I just can't be as relaxed about this point as some other people. Some people would simply tell themselves that it doesn't matter what other people say. My parents are really very conservative. It would be even worse if I presented them with a woman. That would practically mean the end of the world. In the end I will have to make a decision. Keep the relationship secret and live with a guilty conscience? Or, in the end, rather bite the bullet and tell the truth?